What is that old saying, "true friends are like diamonds precious but rare"... I used to take that sort of thing for granted ~ SO busy with the hub bub of making sure this kid had that thing ready, or the oven had SOMETHING in it for dinner, or the dishes had to be put away or cards for every kid in the boys classes had to be finished, or heck even bread had to be baked (yes I baked my own bread and yes I was insane).

Friday I  had a lovely afternoon. We were able to go visit some very dear friends down south in beautiful Escondido. You know, they are only about 40 miles away yet we didn't get down there nearly often enough. It seems so much further than that and I don't really know why.  Both sets of boys (mine and hers) get along beautifully and I truly enjoy just visiting with everyone in the whole family. I have decided I need to make sure I take the time for the things that really count in this life. Friendships are one of those "counting" things.

There are lots of  things that "count". The great part is, your list might be different than mine. I challenge each of you to first imagine that you only have a short time to live ~ but then are granted a reprieve. Now grab a pen and write your "count list".

Here is just a tiny portion of mine.

*kissing owies that kids swear will make their arm fall off (or so it seems with all the dramatic screaming)  so they can go back to fighting with their brothers.
*watching the look on your kids face when you say you are so proud of them
*snuggling with your child until that bad dream gives way to peaceful sleep.
*watching Saturday morning cartoons with your kids even though you can not stand Dinosaur King, Yu Gi Oh, or the millionth episode of Sonic X and can't get that STUPID theme song out of your brain
*figuring out how to reassemble Legos for the 7 millionth time.
*letting your little one tenderly  "help" you up the stairs when it would be much easier to cling to the railing
*the wonderful things kids say that make grown ups sputter a lot, bite their lip, turn away,dip their face or cover their mouth really fast. Me~  I'm a combination mouth cover-er and face dipper.
*David and Goliath skits
*touching your sweethearts face to your forehead
*holding hands
*making sure your siblings know you love them- after all- WE were the ones who used to fight and get the owies...
*calling just to hear your parents voice
*calling just to hear your sweethearts voice ~ even though he only ran to the store a minute ago
*watching the kids wash the car - and themselves - and the driveway- and the  neighbors lawn- and the sidewalk- and the (imagine the print getting smaller and smaller , fading off into the distance)...

To me things that count ~ well, they have always centered around family, but lately have shifted a bit. No more homemade bread.

I'm OK with that.

Dates are not right on these pics, 

I had a possessed camera at the time and it put what ever date it wanted...